How to Stop Sabotaging Our Finances
Michael de Haan has built his business at Quantum Leap Global to address the self-sabotaging beliefs and mindsets he grew up with and carried within him throughout his young adulthood and even throughout much of his first marriage. Join Todd and Michael as they discuss the ways to undo and remake your financial beliefs at any age.
- Incorporating our financial life into our whole life
- Michael’s relationship with money and its emotional side was highly influenced by his experience with scarcity and a self-sabotaging myth that he was unworthy of success
- The problems created by couples leading financially parallel lives
- Feeling worthy of financial satisfaction and success
- The influence on children of parents fighting about money or using money as a condition for love
- Financially sleepwalking through life, living our parents’ lives rather than our own by design
- The importance of partners being financially aligned from early on
- Taking the time to be intentional as a couple about money and envisioning your future
- How do you subconsciously get rid of any amount of money if you aren’t comfortable even with small amounts
- How even the wealthy can see themselves as at risk financially and don’t live financially free
- Beliefs create your thoughts and your thoughts create your reality
- The difference between focusing on dollar amounts and a life by design based on Michael’s 5 Ls: Where you live, what you love doing, what you’re learning, what makes you laugh, and what your legacy is
- Training your subconscious to work for your ultimate success
- “Your life is a printout of your subconscious mind.”
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